• Wade Scott

"A" Is For Anxious

We hear the anxiety in a person’s voice when they call in for help. Their breathing is shallow; their words start coming a mile a minute; something big has shifted in their life and the lives of their loved ones.


• After mom passed, dad moved in with me, and I never knew he was this bad - I don’t know how mom was taking care of him for so long.


• I get about 3 or 4 hours of sleep if I’m lucky. Dad will wake up in the middle of the night thinking it’s time to start his day.


• I feel like I must always stay in the room with him.


After a night of tossing and turning, the caregiver leaves for work in the morning with a knot in her stomach, not knowing how many times dad will call. Just the thought of having to ask her supervisor for permission to leave creates severe anxiety.


• I’ll still have to miss my son’s baseball game to check in on dad.


• My spouse is overwhelmed taking care of the house and kids while I focus on making sure dad’s ok.


By the time the caregiver calls our office, they’re wondering “What are my options? Where do I even start?” After learning that it is not too late to formulate a care plan for-the-future, the family begins to feel relief from their anxiety. Help is coming into the home or dad is safe in a facility, so caregivers can finally get a good night’s sleep.


See our vlog Caregiver #5 – Tough old Bird.

https://www.delawareelderlawcenter.com/post/5-the-tough-old-bird-caregiver-needs-help






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